The “Actually” Social Network

Party Minder is the actually social network: a platform where people create events, invite guests, and build real communities. No ads, no algorithms—just authentic gatherings and meaningful connections.

Vision and Problem

The promise of social networks was connection, but what we got instead were engagement machines—feeds optimized for time-on-screen, ads tuned to personal data, and conversations that vanish into the algorithm’s black hole—leaving people isolated even after hours of scrolling. At the same time, planning a real get-together has become needlessly fragmented across tools that don’t talk to each other and aren’t designed for the small scale where relationships matter most. Party Minder is our response: not another timeline, not another ad network, but a community built for hosting and attending real events. Here you can create gatherings, invite people, track RSVPs, and hold the conversations that make those events possible—all in one place, owned by the host. The idea is simple: start small, start local, and put the social back in social networks.

Why Conversations, Not Feeds?

Party Minder was built to be different. Instead of endless feeds designed to keep you scrolling, we focus on conversations—real exchanges that stay put, where you left them. When you start or join a conversation around an event or community, it doesn’t disappear into an algorithm. It remains part of your circles, easy to revisit, pick up again, and build on. This is how genuine connections grow: not through fleeting posts, but through conversations that matter.

If you’d like to learn more about why we built Party Minder around conversations—and not the endless feeds that divide us—read our full article on From Feeds to Conversations: Building a World Together.

Future-Ready with AT Protocol

Party Minder isn’t just an event platform—it’s built for the decentralized future. Today, every member gets a placeholder ID inside the system. Soon, these will be upgraded to real DIDs and handles that work across Bluesky and other AT Protocol apps. That means your Party Minder identity will be portable, secure, and recognized across the open social web. Join now, and be ready when we turn the key on federation.